True Forgiveness is About Coming To Neutral

Forgiveness and how to get there. December, 2024

Society (and many healing practitioners) teaches us that forgiving a person who has hurt or wronged us is something we can 'will ourselves to do'. However, no matter how much people think they "should" forgive someone who has wronged them, they often get into a negative pattern in which they feel hurt or resentful toward the person who hurt them, then they feel guilty for their feelings which are usually legitimate.

After decades of experience energetically healing clients who had grievances toward one or more people in their life, past or present...be it a family member, an ex-partner, a former employer etc. forgiveness works most easily when the emotional charge is cleared energetically.

I heal clients is by energetically bringing them to a place of complete neutrality toward anyone they are upset about.

What does this mean? Basically, when one feels NEUTRAL toward another person, they no longer feel any emotional charge when thinking about them. Forgiveness then happens naturally and without effort. One example...I have helped countless women with grievances toward their mother come to peace by completely shifting their entire energy field about their mother (or whoever they are upset with) when I work with them.

True Forgiveness is About Coming To Neutral:

I am working with a client who was emotionally bullied by her older sister as a child. Until she came to me for help, the punitive, critical voices she internalized from her sister had played out most of her 60 + years of life, keeping her feeling like a tortured soul and leading to other issues such as an inability to have control over her eating patterns her entire adult life. As I energetically clear the deep hurt and betrayal she has carried her entire life from her sister, she feels much lighter, not just after the session, but all the time!

As I help her become free from the negative self talk and thoughts she has experienced her entire life, she has the freedom to eat the way that feels healthy to her and will have control over this important area for the first time.

Q: WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO BECOME NEUTRAL TOWARD THE PERSON YOU ARE UPSET ABOUT?

A: Because resentment is toxic and when it lingers in the body, it creates more toxicity.

Eventually, unhealed toxicity in the body creates physical problems and conditions such as heart conditions, cancer, fibromyalgia and more.

Consider this analogy:

Resentment is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die.

Resentment Toward Father: Below, you can watch the video testimonial created and sent by a client who found me right after she was diagnosed with an aggressive form of breast cancer. The leading cause of the cancer that developed, as I started to work with her?

Resentment she felt since she was a child toward her father who was highly critical.

As I worked quickly with Sharon to clear the resentments she had been harboring toward her father the progression of the cancer not only started to slow down, but all of her symptoms began to literally dissolve. She also felt much better, much lighter and much more neutral toward her father. 13 years later, she continues to thrive.

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